Can naija boys pick up lines get any worse??....

Don't get me wrong I totally love Naija as in GIDI for life but for real naija guys have the worst pick up lines in the world and the funniest thing about this is that they actually do work for some girls. If you r not aware Hi5 is the number one place to be stalked or to meet RAZZ peeps (and no this razz am using is not the cool razz). All you have to do is put up pictures and you have all sorts of people sending you messages that they can't get you off their minds. And even if you do not have pictures up people still send you messages that "you are the woman in my dreams". I mean how can someone you have not seen before or have no idea of what they look like or behave be in your dream? Is it me or is that totally crazy and unacceptable.

A while back I got a message from a random naija dude that said "my dad must have been a terrorist because I am a sex bomb".. I almost died of laughter, one thing for sure he definitely got my attention but I highly doubt it was the kind of attention he wanted from me. A naija guy told my friend that he “loves her like the vibration of the sea." How does the sea come into play? This other time, a dude came up to me and said "your an angel and I know am the devil but baby don't rebuke me" But WHY?? It almost like they enroll naija guys at a young age in a school that teaches them "LINES TO GET BABES" It should not be so hard to have a regular conversation with a girl. What is so hard in being real? Why do they feel the need to make up these stupid lines in their head? Why can they not let conversations come naturally? Just be you and if that girl is not interested move on to the next one that likes you for you not your money or the cars you drive. Girls like a guy who is confident enough to be himself besides, that's the only way meaningful conversations can be had.

Also, why is that many of the naija guys that approach you cannot speak English properly? "Eye love you".... Come on naija boys I know you guys can do better. I have faith in you guys. By the way, thumbs up to those of you that have kept it real all this time and are still doing that. Yes am back and this time to stay please hold me to my words. By the way, remember you are not ALONE so hang in there.

Love always,
Daddy's little girl (Mbang)xoxo

Couldn't quite think of a title......

Why is it that:
Most times you do not realize how much something means to you until it is about to be taken away
Most times you do not know how great your day is going to be until you are right in the middle of it..
Most times you do not realize how strong you are until you are able to face the difficulties in your life and overcome them.
Too many times we give ourselves less credit than we deserve.
Too many times we think that we cannot make it through our issues but the truth is that we can make our way back from anything. Sometimes all it takes is for us to believe in ourselves and surround ourselves with good people that can be there to encourage us during tough times. We need to be able to hang on and try and believe that we can always start afresh no matter how bad things get or how we screw up. Life is not always going to suck yes it is going to have its down times but its also going to have its good times. We just have to learn to fight through the pain because the moment we stop fighting we stop living.. So guys please hang in there and remember you are not alone...

Love always,
Daddy's little girl....Mbang…xoxo

Now for real my slacking days are truly over!!!

So i've been seriously MIA for about a year now and that seriously sucks because i've missed you all plus i have alot has changed since then... I would like to give the excuse that things have been really crazy and busy and even though to say the least they have, i know that i should have made out time to blog... So am here apologizing for slacking because i do not want you to think i do not care because i truly do... This blog is one of the things that really matters to me so am back again and this time i am here to stay... Yep i am not going nowhere..

Love always,

Daddy's little girl (mbang).......xoxo