Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Life is so much more than........

Life is much more than whose driving the latest car or who has dated the hottest girl
Life is much more than wearing designer clothes or chilling with the cool kids
Life is much more than going clubbing, partying and getting wasted every now and then
Life is much more than trying to please everyone so that you can fit in
Life is much more than been successful and wealthy
Life is much more than bragging to your boys all the girls you've smashed (word of advice that's immature and lame and it says a lot about the kind of person you are).


Don't get me wrong; having some of these things in your life makes life pretty easier but none of the wealth or fame matters if you don't have anyone to share it with.
None of these matters if you don't have God in your life.
None of these matters if you cannot give back to those that lack.
None of these matters if you cannot be true to those close to you but especially yourself.
None of these matters if you cannot be strong enough to think for yourself (No one likes a follow-follow it's really not attractive).
None of these matters if your to scared to let others in because of the fear of getting hurt because at the end of the day you are going to be the one missing out. Always remember that you are not alone. Everyone is going through something so hang in there.
Love always,
Daddy's little girl (Mbang)…xoxo

Why do you limit yourself?

I see you trying to open up but still you don't
I see you trying to express yourself to me but still you don't
I see the real you and it's beautiful but still you chose to be less
I see how vulnerable you are even though you act other wise
I see someone that is scared of getting hurt because of past experiences
I see someone that has the potential to be great and has just began to go places
I see someone that has overcome so many obstacles in life
I see someone who can do anything as long as your mind is set
I see someone that i would forever want to be in my life
I see someone that can change the world
I see someone filled with so much courage and drive
I see someone that has an unconditional love for family
I see someone that is scared to let go completely
I see someone that had to be strong at a young age and now doesn't know how to let go
I see someone that has been disappointed too many times and is now afraid of letting people in
I see someone that makes me want to be a better person
I see someone that has a big heart but,


You see someone that is lost and confused
You see someone that has failed or is failing
You see someone your not proud of
You see someone that used to have a big heart
You see someone that wanted to change the world
You see someone that is struggling
You see someone that does not know where they are going
You see someone that is not a good person
You see someone that is like everyone else
You see someone that is a burden to others


It's okay to be scared but when fear starts to stand in your way of been truly happy then there's a problem. If your someone that is always going to be sitting around waiting for happiness then it would never come to you have to chose to be happy. Yes most times life experiences show that caring and loving only allows for a person to be hurt, disappointed and betrayed I feel that not caring or the inability to express one's feeling because of fear of rejection or pride is a much bigger loss and disappointment. If you do not think that you are the person you are meant to be then do something about it. The only one that can stand in your way is you and I think the moment you realize that a lot is going to change for you. Never stop believing in your self because whenever the real you comes its simply beautiful. Hopefully you get to see this and start thinking differently because if your saw yourself through my eyes then you would know that are truly a unique and blessed person.


Dedicated to all those out there who think less of themselves without realizing how great they are. Keep believing in yourself just like I believe in you. Always remember that you are not alone... :)
Love always,
Daddy's little girl (Mbang)...xoxo